Femmes Against Fascism Wallpapers

Femmes Against Fascism - Main Image, Black & Gold ModernI can’t believe that nearly an entire year has gone by since I last came to play and post in this space, but what do you know? It most certainly has. Prior to the election, I made a promise to myself that I’d return to this spot in the new year and get back into documenting all the creative goings on in this little life of mine; endeavors put aside temporarily only because of a busy and exciting new job, lots of outdoor exploration in the spring and summer, some travel, and then surgery and recovery for Bear toward the end of the year.

Now, here we are in 2017, and we’re living in what often feels like a scarier version of the Upside Down à la Stranger Things. Indeed, we have our very own (orange) demogorgon and a corrupt band of racists and xenophobes propping him up and pulling the strings. I’m recommitting to getting back into creating, posting, and sharing here because, honestly, I need a creative outlet in my life that feels connected to a wider community and audience – of dear friends in different parts of the world, of my beloved queer femme community, and of other creative types and bloggers. It’s a necessary salve in a terrifying time.

Femmes Against Fascism - Main Image, GalaxyI thought for weeks that my return to Femme Fraîche would be with a roasted chicken recipe I’ve been working on perfecting (that sounds boring, but I promise it’s anything but and I’ll give lots more details soon! You’re gonna love it!), but instead, here I am making desktop, mobile, and social media wallpapers proclaiming Femmes Against Fascism. Resistance comes in so many forms, you know? And while spending a few hours in Photoshop is certainly not a replacement from joining up with local protests, calling in white family and friends, and supporting the work of POCs and POC-led orgs, it’s one way I’m using my hands and honing in when the day-to-day finds me reeling with no end in sight.

For me, the slogan of Femmes Against Fascism, though it may have roots elsewhere, is very much inspired by the awesome patches, t-shirts, and banners designed by femme artist, Christina Mancinas, whose online store you must check out. Seriously, go to sleepybbybutt right now and buy all the things. I can’t wait for my haul to arrive!

Femmes Against Fascism - Main Image, LeavesIn the meantime, you can use these image sets below to dress your tech and spread the word of Femmes Against Fascism. Click below to go on over to my Flickr account where they’re hosted and use the download arrow in the bottom right hand corner of each image. Just make sure you’re downloading it in the original size, so that the dimensions are correct. I’d love to see snaps and hear stories of you using them out in the world for some added inspiration if you’re down to share! What other ways are you creatively using your downtime to resist?

Sending love, solidarity, and endurance, femmes, friends, and readers. I’ll see you back here really soon!

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DIY Kate Spade Glitter Earrings

DIY Kate Spade Glitter EarringsThese DIY Kate Spade Glitter Earrings are a project I’ve wanted to undertake for two years now – two whole years! The backstory is that three years ago, my eyes landed on the originals around the holidays and I put them at the top of my Christmas list for all to see. Though I received some absolutely wonderful presents that yea, as I do every year (thanks, fam!), these multi-color glitter studs weren’t waiting for me under the tree. “Not to despair!” I told myself, “If not Christmas, then Valentine’s Day!” But many others shared my delight with them and they were sold out everywhere by the start of the new year. Insert: sad trombone.

I searched high and low for over a year with no promise of a return in sight, so I planned and I schemed on how I could recreate them – I just needed the perfect base earrings to build my shimmery beauties. You know how it goes though, life happened and other projects emerged and my idea for the recreation sat idling on the back burner. But finally, in December of this year, I took the bull by the horns and bought a pair of matte faux stone studs for $3.51 from Forever 21 and began auditioning my treasure trove of glitter nail polishes for a good combination.

DIY Kate Spade Glitter EarringsI wanted pink to be more present in my pair than in the originals. I mean, if I had creative control of this process, I thought that I might as well shoot for the moon! I settled on some complimentary glitter polishes that I already owned – namely, Sally Hansen’s Cheery On Top and China Glaze’s Shine-nanigans, which has a lot more depth and pinkness to it than the photo below would suggest. I also selected New York Color’s Wine Bar to up the magenta quotient by using it as a background color to the glitters; I applied it as a base coat since the earrings I upgraded were grayish white.

DIY Kate Spade Glitter EarringsThese DIY earrings require a little patience, as it pays to let the layers of color and glitter set up a bit before applying the next coat. I used a small stiff angled brush to more aggressively push the glitter around to the spots I wanted it and, at the end, I also used it alongside some cotton swabs and nail polish remover to clean up the areas where my handiwork got a little messy. I sealed the earrings not with clear top coat, as one might be tempted to do considering we’re working with a lot of nail polish here, but rather with this amazing glaze by Americana. It took about 24 hours to fully cure, but it gave the earrings a smooth, slightly domed finish just like the originals and also imparted some really great shine.

DIY Kate Spade Glitter EarringsFor those of you prepared to leave me a comment letting me know Kate Spade went and did a girl a solid and re-released these opulent little gems this past holiday season, I know! But I have to be honest: for less than a third of the original price (way less if you use nail polish you already own or repurpose an old pair of earrings), I think this DIY version is a pretty fantastic dupe! Within minutes of wearing them out into the world for the first time, I got three sets of compliments from three entirely different, unrelated people – that equals success in my book! My only regret is not buying more pairs of the Forever 21 studs so that I could recreate these for all of my earring-wearing, glitter-loving Galentines out there – lucky for all of us, they’re still online here. Small miracles, I say!

Happy Valentine’s Day, everyone! XOXO

DIY Kate Spade Glitter Earrings
Materials
One pair of cushion-cut stud earrings; I used these from Forever 21
Your choice of glitter nail polishes (consider one with finer glitter and one with chunky, hexagonal pieces)
A nail polish, or acrylic craft paint, to use for your base color (optional)
Small, stiff angled brush
Cotton swabs
Nail polish remover
Americana Triple Thick Brilliant Brush-on Gloss Glaze
Foam or cardboard to poke the earrings into for ease of handling when painting and for elevated drying

Directions
Remove your earrings’ backs and poke the stems into a piece of sturdy foam or stiff cardboard so that there is at least half an inch between the back of the earring and the surface of the foam/cardboard. This will help keep the earrings elevated and make them easier to maneuver and see all sides as you paint them. If your earrings are a light color or a color you dislike, use a nail polish or acrylic craft paint of choice to apply a thin base coat to the earrings. If you want one color in the glitter polishes to really stand out, choose this as your base color. I chose a magenta polish on my pair as the base. When dry, apply your first coat of glitter polish. Err on the side of lighter coats, of which you’ll need to apply several, as opposed to heavy, gloppy coats. The latter, obviously, takes more time to dry, but I also felt like I had less control over the distribution of the glitter when the top of the earring was overwhelmed by polish. The more lightly you apply the glitter polish, the less chance you’ll have of errant glitter getting stuck to the side and back hardware of the earrings. Repeat your coats of glitter polish using the stiff angled brush to manipulate the glitter into the patterns and positions of how you’d like it to appear.

After you’ve applied your final coat of glitter – I used about 5 coats – allow it to dry and clean up any spots or splatter with some nail polish remover and either the stiff angled brush or a cotton swab. Next, apply the glaze. I was more heavy-handed with the glaze because I knew I’d only be applying one coat. Paint it on thickly and make sure the surface is smooth and completely covered. As the glaze cures it will, initially, turn opaque white and then, as it hardens, it will lighten until it eventually becomes a smooth, clear, shiny casing. It’s amazing how much this glaze took these from an obvious (but still pretty!) DIY to something that looks much more, well, polished!

 

Valentine’s Day DIY Gift Guide

Valentine's Day Gift Guide: DIY Edition

Of the three Valentine’s Day 2015 Gift Guides I’ve done over the past few weeks (check out gifts for your main squeeze & gifts for your BFF!), this one is my favorite – Valentine’s Day DIY Gift Guide! I’ve combed Pinterest, my favorite blogs, and my own archive (Shameless! Absolutely shameless!) to give you the best suggestions for how to make Valentine’s Day a DIY affair this year. With budgets, skill levels, and genders in mind, I think you’ll find this gift guide all you need for making your boo, bae, or bff something special that reminds them of your love and care all 365 days of the year.

I’m in love with all of these DIYs, so I’ll tell you a little bit more about each of them:

1. This DIY Dino Valentine from Lovely Indeed is one of my most popular pins throughout the year. I think what makes it so instantly beloved is the transformation that occurs when you gild something ugly (or ferocious, in this case!) and turn it into something fancy! An ordinary dinosaur toy isn’t anything to look at, but with some gold paint and tiny arms filled with hearts, there’s nothing not to love! This DIY is quick, easy on the budget, and something your valentine will love regardless of age and gender. Imagine leaving this on the desk of your best officemate? Cu-ute!

2. Working with leather is such a popular trend right now and it’s definitely something I want to try in the future. This DIY leather iPad case tutorial from Martha Stewart also features instructions for a wallet, mouse pad, and pencil case, so the sky’s the limit!

3. For the past two years, Bear has added DIY leather key chains to every single list I keep for blog ideas on my desk, phone, computer, or elsewhere. It’s a new year, so I guess I’d better take a hint. This simple tutorial from 17 Apart includes plenty of photos to guide you in creating these functional little charmers. If you want to get fancy, grab a letter and number stamp kit and customize your key chains with initials or a meaningful date.

4. These DIY vanity trays are so quick, cheap, and easy, but look really luxe! They’re one of my most popular DIYs on the blog and have been featured in various spots online. Most recently, these beauties made it into a feature on Elle Decor’s website as one way to spruce up your bedroom in less than an hour. If they’re good enough for Elle, they’re good enough for your valentine!

5. Did you tragically miss out on the gorgeous Multi-color Glitter Stone Stud earrings that Kate Spade carried over the holidays? Me too. If I’m only drawing your attention to this bad news now, I’m so sorry. Not to worry though! This ingenious DIY from Shore Society will have you armed with a pair for your valentine (or yourself – I wouldn’t be able to resist!) in no time and, truly, they look as good as the originals. I’m in love!

6. If your valentine is experiencing winter in a colder climate, these DIY hand warmers are an adorable, loving way to tell someone you think they’re hot! Minimal sewing skills required and the designer, Rae, has even included a printable card to include with the hand warmers explaining how to heat and, well, handle them. Such a thoughtful gift!

7. My Hibernate with Me pillowcases are one of my favorite DIYs ever and I’ve made it so easy for you with images and text you just download and print. Grab some photo transfer printer paper and your iron and you’re in business! These take just a few bucks and less than an hour – they’re beloved by…everyone!

8. I spend so much time ogling projects put out by the contributors of the Purl Bee, the blogging spot from the creators of Purl SoHo, that it’s a wonder that I, myself, am not so much better at knitting, crocheting, and sewing. Truly, I’m a disaster. This Railroad Tote is a fantastic example of why I keep coming back to their site, though – it’s current, super useful, and a project I feel confident trying because of their awesome, step-by-step tutorials. I love that this tote appeals to the masses both in its style and function – what valentine of yours doesn’t need an extra place to stash their stuff or carry home their groceries?

9. The title of this DIY toiletry bag on Polkadot Chair is “Dad’s Travel Bag,” but this case is great for anyone, of any gender, when they’re planning to be out of town. I especially love that creator, Melissa, used such a bold, fun fox pattern on the inside to give it a little something special. This is a perfect Valentine’s Day gift for long distance loves – whether they be boos or friends – to remind them how much you look forward to their next visit.

10. Can you tell I really value organization and things having their place? Here’s a great tutorial for these adorable DIY clay jewelry dishes from Hello Natural. Aren’t they just so sweet with their scalloped edges and bright, bold paint job? These would be great paired with a set of scented tea lights candles so your valentine can use them as a candle dish to light up their bubble baths or in any other part of the house. For a finishing touch, wrap the metal exterior of the tea light with a washi tape that coordinates with the colors you chose for the dish. Instant hit!

I hope these DIY gifts inspire you and make you a hit among all your many loves for the big V-Day. You’ve got two weeks to go – get crackin’, lovies!

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide for your Best Friend

Valentine's Day 2015 Gift Guide1. Notebooks, Day Planners & Address Books  |  2. Sequin Heart Clip or Pin
3. Handmade Cotton Napkins  |  4. Glass Jewelry Box in Bronze
5. Bon Appétempt: A Coming-of-Age Story (with recipes!) by Amelia Morris
6. I’m not Bossy. I’m the Boss! Mug  |  7. Personalized Stationery
8. Fujifilm Instax Mini 8 Instant Film Camera

As promised, I’m posting today with a Valentine’s Day Gift Guide for your Best Friend…or, you know, any friend that you want to show a little love for this time of year. Some of very best Valentine’s Day memories are shared with friends, especially one where a feast was prepared that ended in chocolate lava cakes! Such good memories and, truly, reminders that friends can be the greatest loves of your life. I feel that way about a few of mine.

My gift ideas here span budgets and interests, but I’m particularly drawn toward the cotton napkins from CuteBrightThings for any friend or loved one that likes to cook and entertain. This orange floral set is so bold and gorgeous and at $18 for four, it’s a great gift idea. I’m also loving the jewelry box in bronze from H&M. It comes in a few colors, but the bronze is so pretty and chic. Who doesn’t need an extra holding spot for all of their baubles? Amelia Morris’ cookbook is another idea for the cook in your life, but it’s also supposed to deliver a really lovely story. It comes out next week and I absolutely cannot wait. I’ve been a reader of her blog, Bon Appétempt, for years and her writing is always funny, familiar, and touching. I haven’t bought a cookbook in a long time – I mostly check them out from the library – but this is definitely one I’ll be buying for myself and a friend!

What are you gift ideas for friends on Valentine’s Day? Do you have any friend memories from V-Day’s past?

Valentine’s Day 2015 Gift Guide

Valentine's Day 2015 Gift Guide

1. Herschel Supply – Little America Backpack  |  2. Snow-Covered iPhone Case by Sarah Montour
3. Classic Wisdom for the Good Life by Bryan Curtis  |  4. Montblanc – Legend Eau de Toilette
5. Foil-Stamped Washington, D.C. Map (other cities available)  |  6. Timex Weekender Watch in Camo
7. Prism Diamond Limited Edition Print  |  8. Milk Glass Cake Plate  |  9. Dessert for Two by Christina Lane
10. Electric Gardens Statement Studs  |  11. Julep’s Glycolic Hand Scrub & Vanish Cuticle Remover
12. The Two-Color Color Block A Satchel from Kate Spade Saturday

I honestly think that 50% of the hype around Valentine’s Day is based on the fact that we all need a little pick-me-up, a little reminder of love, a little sparkle, this time of year. Not only are there now several weeks between us and the holidays – a sad realization that yes, we’re back to the grind for another year – but for many of us, we’re also at least ankle-deep in snow, slush, and the brown-gray dreariness of winter. Just earlier today, I looked out our living room window and gazed upon the street and sidewalks of Minneapolis and compared it to what I can only imagine 19th century city life was like in, say, London – sooty, muddy, messy. I’ve been watching a lot of BBC period dramas lately, guys.

At any rate, with the news that Valentine’s Day is a mere four weeks away, it’s time to start thinking about what you might surprise your great loves with. Flowers and chocolates are all well and good, but something a little bit more personal, maybe even a little glam, is just the thing to turn someone’s February frown upside down. Starting today, I’m releasing three gift guides over the next week to help you navigate the holiday with ease. Each infographic offers fool-proof gifts, across a variety of budgets, for your main squeeze, your bestie, and anyone else whose very presence in your life you want to celebrate. After all, while sold to us as a day for romantic loves, shouldn’t Valentine’s Day really be about telling anyone with permanent residence in your heart how much you adore them? My third infographic later this week will even feature the very best DIY Valentine’s Day gift ideas in a show of solidarity with those that believe the holiday should be detached from consumerism.

In the meantime, though, how about these gift ideas for your main squeeze? How excited would your sweetie be to open that gorgeous foil-stamped map print from Minted (the prism print and the cake plate are from there too – they have such beautiful gift ideas, let alone stationery!)? Or to crack into Christina Lane’s new cookbook featuring small-batch sweets for you and yours; her blog, Dessert for Two, is such a happy, inspiring, and tasty place to visit online. Bear stands by the Timex Weekender watch as a great gift that keeps on ticking – a present from Mom & Dad this past Christmas – and I don’t even bother giving myself a manicure anymore without using the hand scrub and cuticle remover from Julep. They truly improve the lifespan of my nail color and the neatness of the application – special thanks to my friend, Charlotte, for gifting me that duo last summer! Of course, for the purse-carrier in your life, is there anything more gorgeous than that Kate Spade Saturday A Satchel? It’s even on sale right now, though it remains pricey. That fuchsia leather though…droooooling.

Got any great gift ideas I’ve missed? Let me know what you’re eyeing up for Valentine’s Day 2015 – whether for yourself or a loved one!

Up next: Valentine’s Day gift ideas for your best friends! Stay tuned!

DIY Chalkboard Cake Toppers

DIY Chalkboard Cake ToppersWell, the semester has begun and though I wish I was creating blog content all the live long day, I’ve been back to teaching and guiding students through their first few weeks of gender & women’s studies classes. For the first time in a long time, I’m teaching some intro-level classes, which are my absolute favorite. Observing students as their minds are being blown is just the very best feeling as a teacher. These are the perks!

Before things really got underway this semester, though, I celebrated my birthday last week with a friend whose big day is just a day before mine. Surrounded by friends and loved ones, we drank champagne and ate an amazing Italian-inspired meal, al fresco, in our beautifully decorated side yard. It was quite a time! For dessert, I made us a giant cheesecake, covered in the season’s sweetest strawberries, and used these easy DIY cake toppers I had made the week before to make it extra special.

DIY Chalkboard Cake ToppersIf you follow my Instagram feed or checked out the highlights from Charlotte & Katie’s wedding feature, these may look familiar to you. I made Charlotte & Katie a pair for their wedding cake back in July and because they were just so easy (and almost criminally inexpensive), I followed up with a set for myself. What’s wonderful about them is that they’re reusable – the white paint that spells out your message of “Happy Birthday!”, or what have you, is written on a chalkboard paint background with a chalk marker! With a damp cloth, the slate is wiped clean and they’re ready to go for your next happy, cake-included, occasion.

DIY Chalkboard Cake ToppersYou’re limited here really only in terms of what shapes of wood you can find. While I’ve come across other shapes and sizes at Joann’s, these hearts are my favorite and are most applicable to a variety of holidays and events. Chalkboard paint, though, is available in so many different colors now and what you use as an accent color for the backs, edges, and skewers is entirely up to you. Now that I’m thinking of it, I wish I had tracked down a hot pink chalkboard paint because, paired with the metallic gold accent, it would have been a femme birthday dream come true!

DIY Chalkboard Cake ToppersThis is an easy craft that you can pull together in about an hour total, that costs only a few dollars, and will add a really personal touch to any future party. Arrange them on cakes, pies, cupcakes, and even stuck in the middle of a mound of cookies. They’re a sweet addition to any dessert and something you, or your loved one, can hang onto as a memory afterward or re-use in the future.
DIY Chalkboard Cake Toppers

DIY Chalkboard Cake Toppers

Supplies:
Two wooden cut outs in any shape; I used hearts from Joann Fabrics, which were under $1 each!
Chalkboard paint
Acrylic paint in color of your choice for backs, edges, and skewers
2 wooden skewers
Hot glue sticks & glue gun
Foam paint brush, about 1″ wide
Small thin-tipped paint brush, s square tip works best
Chalk marker, or regular chalk

Directions:
On a flat surface lined with newspaper, paint the backs and edges of your shapes with your accent color of choice; I used the foam brush for the back and the thin-tipped brush for the edges. If you get a slight bit on the front, just wipe it off as best you can, but don’t fret – the chalkboard paint will cover all. After the accent color has mostly dried – about 10 minutes – apply a second coat to backs and edges. When the second coat dries either move on to the following step or add a third coat if needed. Using the thin-tipped brush follow your shape and paint a perimeter on the front of the piece with the chalkboard paint so that you create a margin and don’t risk painting over the edge that you just painted with your accent color. Using the wider foam brush, fill in the shape with a coat of chalkboard paint and allow to dry. Follow this step for the front of the shape for at least three coats in order to get a truly opaque surface. Allow to dry completely. If need be, touch up the edge with your accent color.

When your shapes are completely painted and dried, heat your glue gun and ready your two wooden skewers. If you choose to paint the skewers in your accent color, painting them when you paint the shapes is the best plan, as painting them once they’re glued to the shapes is a bit awkward. Flip your shapes over so that the back side is facing up. Apply a small, 1/2″ or so line of hot glue to the back of the shape and press the top, non-pointed, side of the skewer into the glue. If the glue is not enough to encase the top of the skewer, apply a bit more glue over top so that it is covered. Do the same to the other shape & skewer and allow to dry completely. Hot glue is usually clear, so depending on your preference, you can either leave as is or, if you’d like, once the glue is hardened and cooled, you can use your accent color to paint over the glue and make it blend a bit more seamlessly. This step is optional.

Once the skewers are dried, the cake toppers are ready for use. Use a chalk marker for easy, seamless writing (or regular chalk if preferred) and spell out your message of celebration. Chalk markers can be easily removed with a damp cloth (avoid paper towel, as it catches on the paint and the wood). Allow surface to dry before re-printing.

Charlotte & Katie’s DIY Wedding Feature!

DIY Wedding JarsCharlotte and Katie’s beautiful DIY wedding has been wonderfully featured this week on the blog Lesbian Wedding Style Guide! There are photos there to showcase some of the projects we took on and an interview with yours truly.  I’ll have another post or two here on some of the elements we made, but here’s a chance in the meantime to learn a bit more of the story and see some photos of their beautiful day. Won’t you check it out?

Here’s a sneak peek…

Charlotte and I met through our Ph.D. program. She’s since left Minneapolis for a visiting assistant professor position in Ohio, but because it’s not permanent, her partner Katie has stayed in Minneapolis working on her electrician apprenticeship. My priority for their wedding was to stay within their budget while maintaining all the details that would make it beautiful and worthy of them.

Read the rest of the full post here!

Photo courtesy of Ethan Ethan

DIY Photo Confetti

DIY Photo ConfettiOnce upon a time, I wanted to create a design element for my friends’ DIY wedding reception that would wow them and their guests. Knowing that the bride, Charlotte, wanted a way to integrate some photos of her and Katie from their wedding ceremony, which happened a few weeks prior, I wracked my brain thinking of how to do so in a fun, innovative way. That’s when I landed on what is probably my all-time favorite DIY idea to date: photo confetti! This was it! The party idea I had been searching for and after seeking out the right tools and templates, and selecting the perfect shades of coral and navy to match their colors, I was well on my way. Before I knew it, I had cups filled with varying sizes of their faces betwixt pops of color and a bit of gold glitter. I was stoked! This would be the perfect final touch on their wedding reception’s welcome table! DIY Photo ConfettiAnd it would have been…had I remembered to put it out. Wah-wah. Truth is that we were so busy finalizing appetizer trays, piping whipped cream rosettes, and readying ourselves that the final moments of party prep saw my lonely bag of confetti abandoned on a bookshelf, forgotten, until I was home, showered, getting into bed, and suddenly I remembered it! What followed was one of my best cursing streaks yet. Sigh. I guess Virgos mess up after all! DIY Photo ConfettiThis doesn’t mean that we can’t still have a tutorial though and, of course, there are still pictures to ogle and inspire your own varieties. This project comes together much easier than you might think and, truly, the only potential drama of the whole thing is that you’ll want to make sure you have full ink cartridges on your printer or ones very nearby. Or, better yet, you can skip all the at-home printing and upload and order photos fresh from somewhere like Shutterfly, which would definitely cut out the only time-consuming part of this project; I suggest ordering your prints first and then choosing the sizes of your dots. If you go the at-home, DIY route, you’ll need access to Photoshop or some kind of similar photo editing program that gives you the option to create patterns and fill images with them – I hear Open Office is good for this, but I’ve never tried it. I have access to Photoshop CS5, so my directions are based on that particular software and version; I’m happy to try and help troubleshoot in the comments if you run into any issues. There is also a pretty foolproof video made by someone much more qualified than me to explain this whole pattern/fill process we’re going to undertake, so I’ve linked to that below too. DIY Photo ConfettiI knew from the start that I’d be using some hole punches (you can’t even imagine the mess it would be if I tried to cut these out freehand! Oy!), which you can find in the scrapbooking section of your craft store or on Amazon, and decided on two sizes – 1″ and 1.75″. I used the 1″ punch for individual shots of Charlotte’s and Katie’s faces and then used the bigger punch for shots of them together. What I was less clear on was how I could print the images in a way that would allow me to easily punch out the areas (close-ups of the faces) of the photos I wanted to, within the dimensions I needed, and also without wasting a ton of ink printing out whole 4×6 photos. Tricky stuff – but easily mastered! DIY Photo ConfettiThank goodness for Bear who quickly suggested trying to find a Photoshop-friendly template for a button maker online so that I’d have the exact size I needed for the confetti dots and with an allowed rim for bleed – meaning, in case I cut a bit outside where I had intended, I’d still have a little room within the photo itself and wouldn’t be cutting outside it onto the blank photo paper. Admittedly, this wound up happening a few times any way just because when I initially started punching out photos I did so with the photo facing up, obscured by the punch, so my aim was sort of a guessing game. I soon realized, though, that if you flip the photo image-side down, you can see where you are about to cut by turning the punch over, as the underside of the punch is exposed. That observation made this project a lot easier. You’re welcome. DIY Photo ConfettiAfter a quick bit of searching, I found these templates to be exactly what I needed and once I lined up the image in the template through Photoshop, I was able to create a quick pattern out of it (more details below), and then fill a page with my image repeated over and over on it. Once the sheets of photos are printed, the punching out goes quickly. I supplemented the photo dots of the confetti with, as mentioned above, some coral and navy 1″ dots, as well as some gold glittered ones because glitter only increases the wow factor of all things, amiright? I also used my old, reliable standard 1/4″ hole punch to punch out some much smaller dots in order to bulk up the mix and make it a bit more like your standard confetti.

This is such a sweet idea for wedding decorations, or even ones for an engagement or bridal party. I can see incorporating photos of the couple as kids, or awkward teens, to make them really fun! Outside of weddings, though, the confetti is great for pretty much any special occasion – birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine’s Day, etc. It’s a great, inventive way to add a personal touch to a party and celebrate a certain someone(s). It’ll be the talk of the event – just remember to put it out and use it liberally! This stuff is made for fun!

Think you’ll try making some photo confetti of your own? Have you ever helped a friend or family member with their wedding décor? What did you make? Would love to hear from you in the comments!

DIY Photo Confetti

Supplies
Hole punches of varying sizes – I used 1/4″, 1″, and 1.75″
Scrapbook paper or card stock in your desired colors and textures
Photos printed to the size of your hole punch OR, if DIY-ing this, you will need:
An inkjet printer with both color and black & white ink cartridges
Several sheets of 8.5 x11 glossy photo paper for printers – I used this kind from Canon
Photo editing software, Photoshop preferred
Templates that match the size of your hole punches
Scissors

Directions
Download the templates you will need that match the size of the hole punches you intend to use for the photo dots. Once you’ve opened the templates in Photoshop, paste in your photo, making certain that it resides in its own, new layer below the layers labeled “cut line” and “face line.” The “face line” marks the edge of your image within the dimensions of the template. For example, if you select a 2″ template, the “face line” is the end of the 2″, so what you want to punch out with a 2″ hole punch needs to be within this circle and aligned accordingly. The “cut line” represents the edge of the bleed area in the event you cut a bit beyond the face line or, in the case of this being made to make buttons, the space between the “face line” and the “cut line” is what would wrap around the edge of the button. The video tutorial at Buttonmakers.net is a good resource for understanding this process better, as well as creating a pattern from the photo, which is our next step.

Once you have pasted your photo into the template and adjusted it accordingly to the “face line,” (you may need to change the size of the image in order to get it to fit) hide the “face line” by deselecting it in the layers frame so that it disappears from your image. Next, go to Edit >> Define Pattern and name your pattern something discernible, i.e. Char Face. Your pattern is now saved and ready to use! Open a new Photoshop document that is size 8″ by 10″ and set the resolution to 300 pixels/inch. With the new, blank image open, select Edit >> Fill and then on the “Use” menu, select “pattern.” Below this, you will have the option to choose your custom pattern. Select this drop-down and find your image within the library. Depending on how many patterns you have, you may need to scroll through to the bottom to find your newest one. Select your pattern and then click “ok.” The new, blank image will fill itself with as many iterations of your image it can to allow for on an 8.5″ x 11″ page. You may now print this on a sheet of glossy photo paper.

Once the photos are printed, you can punch out the images using your hole punch that matches the size of the template you used; as a point of reference, I got 12 1.75″ dots out of my 1.75″ template. After punching out all of the images on the periphery of the paper, you may need to use scissors to free up the inner area so that you can punch those dots out too; my hole punch couldn’t extend that far into the page from the paper’s edge. When punching out your photos, turn the image upside down in order to view it from the underside of the hole punch. This will allow you to see what you have lined up to punch, so that you can make sure your image is centered, within your margins, etc. Print and punch as many images and sizes as you desire and follow suit with some dots of scrapbook paper or card stock to integrate colors and textures in your custom blend. If your event is outdoors, you may want to stick with paper that has a heavier weight to it so that it does not blow away. Incorporate a sizable amount of 1/4″ dots in order to really stretch your confetti, but to also increase its tossability …that’s a word now, I swear.

Make Your Own Wedding Bouquet

DIY Wedding Bouquet | Femme FraicheIf you’re thinking about making your own wedding bouquet – or a hand-held bouquet for any occasion – but are concerned you won’t be able to hack it, I’m here to tell you to put fear aside and embrace the DIY! Making a bouquet, even a large one, even one for a very fancy affair, is not nearly as difficult as it seems. Truly, the hardest part is standing in front of a refrigerator full of flowers and deciding which ones work best together. Even then, though, I’ve got some tips to make that easier, as well.

Creating your own bouquet, or having someone in your wedding party make one for you, is so much more cost effective than going to a florist and shelling out at least $200. By making the bouquet yourself, you not only save money, but can really customize it to your tastes. With a few tips, some guidance, and patience, you can design a really gorgeous bouquet and for a price so small, you’ll feel like you got away with something really sneaky!

Charlotte's BouquetI recently created a gorgeous bouquet for my friend Charlotte’s wedding (above) and while it was far easier than I anticipated and came together really beautifully, my nerves were sky-high leading up to making it and throughout the process. Of course they were though, right? It’s a big job, and an important one, but also totally overrated in its presumed difficulty. You’ve got this!

Because I was focused hard on creating a beautiful bouquet, I didn’t enlist anyone’s help in taking photos throughout its construction. Curses! Fortunately, though, there were leftover flowers and the next day, I recreated a smaller version of Charlotte’s bouquet in order to lead you through the crafting of your own with some step-by-step instructions and photos. If you’re looking to make a larger bouquet, I’ll note in the tutorial where and how to continue adding flowers to make a very full, formal one like hers. At the end, I’ll also organize a list of some tips I figured out along the way.

I promise you that the hype – and expense! – of bouquets isn’t justified. With some patience and some know-how, anyone can make a stunning bouquet for any kind of special day.

Step 1: Select & prepare your flowers
The first thing you’ll want to do is select what flowers you’re going to use in your bouquet. Consider the head – or flowered section – of the bouquet as needing three distinct kinds of flowers – 1) those that make up the bulk of the head (this can be one or several different kinds of flowers), 2) those that give the bouquet some height or dimension, and 3) those that can be used as filler to bulk a section up or add some contrast. I chose to incorporate some bay leaf in this bouquet to create height and dimension to my bulk flowers – roses & carnations – and, if you look really closely, you might be able to tell that they’re artificial! For filler and stems, fake sprigs can add a lot of variety and drama for very little money.

DIY Wedding Bouquet | Femme FraicheTo prepare your flowers for the bouquet, remove all fresh leaves and thorns below each flower’s head and cut all stems on a 45 degree angle while under running water, then plunge immediately into a vase filled with room temperature water. Cutting the stems under water prevents an air pocket from immediately forming at the cut site, which will interfere with the flowers being able to take in as much water as they need; this is an especially important step when working with roses. As you work, keep your flowers in water and in a cool spot.

Step 2: Build your base
The first step to making a sturdy, tight bouquet is to build a solid base. As a foundation, this initial group of flowers will keep the center of the bouquet together, creating a strong neck by which to hold it. The base is important because it will be what you build out from in order to grow the bouquet to the size of your choosing.

DIY Wedding Bouquet | Femme FraicheCreate the base by pairing 4-5 flowers together in the pattern or arrangement that you like. Starting with the first flower in one hand, imagine it as the very middle of the bouquet. Add your second flower and hold the two tightly pinched between your forefinger and thumb, adding the third, fourth, and possibly fifth flowers in the same way, keeping them tightly gathered beneath the heads of the blooms. Don’t worry if, at this point, the stems are all pointing in awkward directions. All you want to be certain of is that the top of the flowers appears the way you’d like the middle of the bouquet to look and that the flowers are being held together tightly right below the heads.

DIY Wedding Bouquet | Femme FraicheNext, apply the end of a roll of floral tape no further than an inch below the flower heads and, while holding the stems tightly together,  wrap down the gathered stems about two inches. The tape doesn’t have to be perfectly wrapped or look very neat – you’re going to be adding more flowers and then ribbon to cover it all – it just has to be tightly wound, keeping your base very solidly together.

Step 3: Build out the head & tape
Once your base is solidly clustered and taped, the next step is to continue widening and building out the head of your bouquet. Here’s where you decide how big you want the bouquet and can continue adding concurrent layers of flowers accordingly to get the shape and size that you want. Employ the same tactics as above, adding and pinching the new flowers one-by-one around your base, holding them tightly. A loosely held bouquet will shift and appear sloppy, so keep those stems tight and, as needed, apply more floral tape to keep everything sturdy.

DIY Wedding BouquetIf you’re working with a mixture of different flower sizes – for example, in Charlotte’s bouquet, I used roses, carnations, and then large, white hydrangeas – consider symmetry when in doubt about how to further arrange the growing layers. Balancing one large flower on either side and then filling in the two remaining sides with similar, smaller flowers will keep the bouquet round and voluminous. If you don’t like how something looks, rearrange things. Nothing is set until you tape the final bunch and even then, you can unwrap and reassemble, or add additional flowers if they are needed.

DIY Wedding Bouquet | Femme FraicheWhen you have filled out the head of the bouquet to the point where you are satisfied, use the floral tape once more to begin tightly taping the stems together. Start, again, an inch or so below the heads of the flowers and wrap tightly, overlapping the tape, until you’ve reached approximately 2 inches above where you want the stems of the bouquet to end once you are prepared to cut them.

Step 4: Incorporating filler
For some reason, filler is my favorite part of creating a bouquet. I think it’s because of how it takes an already beautiful bouquet to a completely different level, but also because there’s so much you can consider using to add height and texture. As mentioned earlier, I used some artificial options – a spray of bay leaves and a stem of faux white berries – but also incorporated traditional baby’s breath because it’s just so dainty. Consider overbuying on the filler, choosing lots of different varieties, and then experiment once your bouquet is in-hand. You can’t know for sure what kinds of leaves, sprays, or baubles, your bouquet will benefit from until you have everything in front of you. Filler is an opportunity to really add a little extra beauty that is specific to your tastes and aesthetic.

DIY Wedding Bouquet | Femme FraicheDepending on the length of your filler, you may be able to just nestle it between the blooms, as desired, but if the pieces are longer, or fall more on the outside of your bouquet, you may need to, once more, tape the length of the bouquet handle from one inch below the flower heads to 2 inches above where you will trim the stems. If you’re concerned about filler falling out, you can always add a drop of hot glue to the end before nestling it down into the head of the bouquet.

Step 5: Finessing the handle & trimming stems
The bouquet head gets all the glory, but truth is that the handle can also be really gorgeous and eye-catching too. For both Charlotte’s bouquet and this re-creation here, I used a thick navy grosgrain ribbon and pearlized pins for a clean, classic finish. You can use any combination of ribbons, laces, twines, etc. that you can think of, so long as you can easily cover the floral tape and find a way to inconspicuously secure the ends.

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With this bouquet, I wrapped the ribbon tightly over all of the visible floral tape. When I reached the end of wrapping, I cut the ribbon about a half inch too long and folded it under, creating a finished edge, stretched it as far around the handle as it would go, and held it firmly against the handle with my thumb. Using my other hand, I pinned into the fold and then into the stems, angling the pin upward into the handle so that it was securely fastened and safely ensconced in the handle, free from poking through to the other side and injuring someone. I proceeded to do this with several other pins, equal distance from one another, up the length of the bouquet handle. Of course, if pearlized pins are not your style or you’re using a twine or something similar, you could always just hot glue the end and tuck it beneath an area where the handle is wrapped.

DIY Wedding Bouquet | Femme FraicheLast, but not least, trim your stems straight across about two inches from the bottom edge of the handle wrapping. Handle length is entirely personal and, fortunately, something you can customize. Just remember to err on the side of caution and trim less before more. No one wants a stumpy bouquet!

When finished, place your bouquet in enough water to submerge the ends, but not wet the wrapped handle (see tips below regarding flower food). Bouquets can be kept overnight in the refrigerator if made the day before or left in there to keep cool if made the day of the event. Before doing so, verify that the flowers you’re using can withstand the coolness of a refrigerator, though, and are not a variety that will wilt in lower temperatures.
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Tips & Tricks:

  • When selecting flowers, consider sturdier blooms for the bulk, nestling more delicate ones inside the bouquet. For the DIY bouquet maker, erring on the side of stronger, less delicate flowers, will allow more room for rearranging.
  • Finding flowers that are easily accessible and financially within your means are key parts to DIY-ing your bouquet. Google around your area for wholesale flower markets, many of which are open to the public, and also start scouting friends with Costco memberships. Yes, Costco! Believe it or not, they have gorgeous fresh flowers and at really reasonable prices – $16 for 2 dozen roses? Boom. Also check out markets that fancy themselves more “gourmet”-type establishments – Whole Foods, Trader Joe’s, Kowalski’s, if you’re in the Twin Cities, are all examples. They always have fresh, beautiful flowers available and, often, a wider variety compared to a standard grocery store.
  • Remember that you can always supplement with artificial pieces. I’m not suggesting making a silk flower bouquet, but filler, embellishment sprays, and leaves can be hard to find if you’re working the grocery store circuit for your bouquet. Check out local craft stores a week ahead of time and stock up on all kinds of potential. Save your receipt so that you can return the pieces you don’t use.
  • Use Pinterest as inspiration ahead of time and gather ideas there for flowers that work well together and bouquet handle designs that match your tastes. Print pictures, or save images to your phone, and take them with you when looking for flowers or materials from the craft store.
  • Give yourself plenty of time. This is a new endeavor and while it’s really not very difficult, it requires patience, and deftness of hand; rushing through will end in broken stems and petals askew. Think the whole process will take you 2 hours? Block off 3-4 to be safe. No one wants to have to rush out the door to the ceremony, leaving their kitchen strewn with debris.
  • Pay extra close attention to pets while you’re creating your bouquet. Dogs and cats gravitate toward crunchy, fresh flora, so they may be circling beneath you like sharks or waiting for you to turn your back in order to steal a taste. Because plants and flowers can be really harmful to pets, consider keeping them in another room if possible until you are done with the bouquet and clean-up or enlist a friend or partner to keep their eyes peeled.
  • A bouquet can last well over a week if kept fresh with water and nutrients after the ceremony. Cut the stems on a 45 degree angle under water and then return them to a vase of water that has been fortified with the packets of flower food that come with loose flowers or make your own concoction by diluting half a teaspoon of bleach and half a tablespoon of granulated sugar into a half gallon of room temperature water. The bleach keeps bacteria down (the #1 cause of early flower death) and the sugar feeds the flowers. Keep this mixture on hand and empty, rinse, and refill the vase with new solution every day. Keep flowers in a cool place that receives indirect sunlight and that is far away from fruit, which releases ethylene gases and can cause flowers to shrivel up early.
  • Transporting a bouquet to a wedding venue can prove a challenge. Creating a stable holder, though, takes just a few minutes. Find a box that is wider than the bouquet (for stability), but that is still easy to carry. Next, seek out a jar that is nearly the same height as the box, but no shorter than an inch below, or longer than an inch above, it. You will want a jar that is at least 4 inches wide so that the base is not too narrow to support the top-heavy head of the bouquet. Wrap the mason jar with brown paper or newspaper in order to give it some padding and tape well. Place the mason jar in the center of the open box and fill all open space around it with filler or any kind – again, newspaper works well here. Fill it tightly so that the jar cannot slide around. Close the lids of the box and tape shut, then cut out a square around the mouth of the jar. If the jar is slightly taller than the box, cut the square before putting the mason jar in the box and taping down the lid. Fill the mason jar with water and flower food solution and insert bouquet. Before leaving, loosely wrap a plastic bag around the head of the bouquet to keep it clean. Check out the quick photos I took with my phone for a better idea of how to efficiently transport the bouquet – photo 1, photo 2, photo 3, photo 4.

DIY Wedding Binder

DIY Wedding BinderLast Friday, one of my dearest friends, Charlotte, married her longtime sweetheart, Katie, in an intimate courthouse ceremony. The bride was beautiful, the butch groom very dapper, and all attending guests were there to share in what was a really lovely afternoon. Since Charlotte and Katie’s families are spread out, they are doing things a bit non-traditionally, but no less thoughtfully. While their formal ceremony was Friday, they will be having a party in July for friends and loved ones in the Twin Cities and then another with family at a gathering between their two homes come the fall. So many opportunities to celebrate!

DIY Wedding BinderOver the next month and a half, Charlotte and I will, largely, be planning what their celebration for friends will look like and, chances are, you’ll see some of the projects we undertake for it here. What a happy way to cultivate blog content at the same time as organizing what will be an amazingly fun, love-filled day! My Pinterest boards and I are already bursting with ideas!

DIY Wedding BinderPlanning a party, even one that is informal and fairly small in size for a wedding celebration (about 40 people), is a lot of work and, herein, my Virgo brain sees an opportunity for organization. Enter: The Wedding Binder. A wedding binder is many things I love all rolled into one: structured, informative, tidy, an excuse to buy cute office supplies, etc. I know that holding up these kinds of qualities probably makes me sound like a total stiff (do people still say that?), but it’s only in project planning that I hold so dearly to these ways. How else will one remember if they sent a “thank you” card to their aunt or remember where they put the receipt from the caterer? If you have a wedding binder, everything has a place, eliminating one stressor right off the bat.

DIY Wedding BinderCould you buy a wedding binder? Of course, but there are so many templates online to make your own, and now this one, that printing out some pages and putting them in a binder along with some dividers is time well spent. Not only does it save you money, but making your own wedding binder also allows you to really customize it to your needs. When I made this binder for Charlotte and Katie, for example, I didn’t have to include space on the “Expenses” sheet for ceremony costs because, aside from the marriage license, there weren’t any.

DIY Wedding BinderCharlotte and Katie’s party, as many small weddings are, will also largely be a very DIY affair, so I knew it was also important to include space in their binder where they could collect visual ideas from magazines or Pinterest to inform future table design or what have you. I also created a section called “Team Bride” where Charlotte can identify friends in her network who she can ask to assist with parts of the party, i.e. here she can make a note that our other friend, Katie, will do Charlotte’s hair and make-up that day. Since music is so vitally important to the small, DIY wedding, I made sure to also create a “Soundtrack” page where they could jot down ideas that came to them for “must-haves” to hear on the day of the reception. On their wedding site, Charlotte and Katie asked guests to suggest songs when they submit their RSVP – a great idea! – so this is a landing place for those selections too.

DIY Wedding BinderWhile this binder has largely been geared toward Charlotte and Katie specifically, I’ve kept the average small wedding planner in mind as I’ve crafted this, so the sheets, which I’ve made available as free printables below, should be helpful to lots of folks. Take a look!:

Guest List
Gift Log
Vendors
Expenses
Menu
Seating Arrangements
Team Bride
Soundtrack
Shopping List

For smaller, DIY parties like this one, keeping organized, budgeting well, and relying on friends for additional help and services depending on where their strengths lie are all key to pulling off a beautiful day. To those of you out there who have planned (or are planning – congratulations!) a small, but special day, what other tips do you have to keep everything and everyone reigned in and organized leading up to, and on the day of, the main event?